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You were mindful enough to realize that something was wrong with your former school and brave enough to do something about it. You applied to (probably) countless schools. You told vulnerable tales of discomfort and unhappiness. You poured your heart into your application. And guess what! You got into Tufts as a transfer (which is amazing and you should be extremely proud)!

And now you are here, in all your glory.

I spoke to many of you at the Transfer Panel, but the transfer process can’t be summarized nor explained in a one hour Q&A session. From here on out, my blog will be dedicated to discussing the trials and tribulations of the transfer life, the amazing aspects of being a transfer on campus and the hardest ones, and how you can make sure your experience at Tufts is the best it can possibly be.

Sitting behind the front tables of Aidekman 12, I was transported back 365 days—to the moment I sat, trembling, in the very seats you sat in. I saw the excitement, curiosity, and (inevitable) fear in your eyes, and I knew the exact feelings rushing through your minds and bodies.

I don’t know you all, but I know how each day feels. If it hasn't become easier yet, it will. If you haven’t found friends yet, you will. Stay positive and resilient. Know that you are going through an amazingly unique experience. And own it. Don’t let little things weigh heavily on your shoulders. Prioritize your happiness over everything. Be present with the people you are around and unapologetically meet classmates, club members, professors, dining hall staff. People want to meet you and—correct me if I’m wrong ;D—you want to meet people.

I know this is a brief post, but I will dive into deeper water soon enough. In the meantime, trust yourself and know that you can do this. And, as always, email me at lily.blackshaw@tufts.edu.